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Should I be worry about this?

About 6 years ago I was 8 mos pregnant. A girl who didn't know me told my husband (boyfriend at the time) that she saw me at a party take 4 guys in a bedroom & do them all. He, for some stupid reason beleived her. He called me on my birthday to yell at me, call me names & break up with me. I was so upset I repeatedly vomitted which in turn caused the umbilical cord to wrap around the baby's neck & kill him. I had a still born. She wanted to hook up with him, they had messed around a few years before. They never hooked up (supposedly) & we got back together. We have now been married for 6 years & have 3 kids. This girl has just moved a couple houses down from us & from what I've been hearing, she is still a wh*re. My husband says I shouldn't let it bother me. We drove past her house yesterday,she waved, & my husband waved back. It really upset me & he told me I was overreacting. Should I worry about this situation? Moving is not an option. What should I do? I can't talk to the other married women in the neighborhood. They are her sister, mother, and grandmother. The repeated vomitting wrapped the umbilical cord around the baby's neck and choked him to death.

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1. Talk crap about her to the rest of the married women in your neighborhood. We stick together.
2. I would move far far away from her. P.S I have just suffered a stillborn myself. I lost my son march 1, 2006. My husband at the time(our divorce was finalized last night)wasn't there and didn't want to be. The pain of losing your child, never ends.
3. Let it go because she isn't worth the time or trouble. Women have to be the worst when it comes to creating situations that destroy other women. Although you were upset that your husband waved back at her maybe you should wave back too in an effort to show her that you are not bothered by her antics. Eventually she will leave you alone and moving won't solve a thing. Unfortunately, no matter where you live or where you move...there are unscrupulous people in every neighborhood.
4. I would feel that she was the reason my first child died and your husband should feel the same way. I can't believe he would even be able to look at her. You really need to talk to him about this because you will never be ok with her living that close and if moving is not an option then you need to set some ground rules with him. There is no reason they need to be social with each other
5. first of all I am not a doctor but I am fairly sure that vomitting would not cause your baby to die. Secondly, you are married and have a lovely family. You should trust your husband and get over this immature problem. just ignore her and she will ignore you. be honest with your husband abouthow upset it made you that he waved at her and let it go.
6. it may be hard but forget her your life has moved on a i feel for you but your married now with 3 kids life's to short to be bitter show ever one yoUr the better person i hope u sort it out and most of all be happy with ur family
7. You really have a problem. This isn't just petty jelousy. She could serious heart ache for you. This prolly isn't the best solution, but I would make the neighborhood miserable for her. Call the cops on her if you can. Make it not worth her while to live there.
8. Declare her and her family your enemy and end all contact/communication with her. Tell your husband to do the same.
9. Don't kill her with kindness but don't set yourself up to be the bitch either. Be cordial. Is she married???? Your husband's waving, you should be waving as well with a smirk on your face that says HA! He's mine after all ....no matter what you tried to pull, he married me. Beam with pride that YOU have a beautiful family with him. Good luck sweetie....
10. hey your'e the wife what he did was totally disrespectfull but dont play his game act like a lady and dont say any thing, just ignore it.. now if you think that she maigth be dangerous pray to God to make her leave form there and to protect you and all your familly form her. and remember you are the wife
11. WHAT ARE YOU TWELVE? YOU BETTER GROW UP SO THE CHILDREN YOU HAVE NOW HAVE A CHANCE TO BE MATURE ADULTS!!!
12. Yes, I'd be worried. You must address YOUR HUSBAND though, not this woman! After all it is not her lies but HIS REACTION that caused your unfortunate situation. (I don't know how you could've forgiven and married this guy, but it's too late to talk about that.) I would forbid him to greet, meet or even acknowledge this woman. This is not petty jealousy, this is a painful reminder of an ugly situation that you don't need to be reminded of. I would tell my husband if he valued our marriage he will not speak to this woman at all! (That includes WAVING!) If he can't understand that I would reevaluate our marriage!
13. I would be worried. Sometimes women will do anything for what they want. It doesn't matter who is in the way or the consequences. Also, Men can be stupid. That could be, not a guarantee, a problem. Keep a watchful eye and listen to your instincts.
14. The only way to get through this is to 1) Trust your Husband and 2) Forgive Her. I know it sounds hard but in order to receive peace you have to forgive. Only God can help her get better in her life and only God can keep your marriage together. Trust Him and he will see you through this.
15. I really hate to say this because I have lost a child myself, but...I highly doubt vomiting can cause a baby to be still born. I was deathly ill through all my pregnancies and Ive ended up with two healthy kids. Cant blame her for misfortunes. He ended up marrying you, suck it up and move on with your lives together.
16. Can you move? I mean, you are already worried, that question answered itself. It's your home, and your family. Nothing should jeopardize your security...
17. Maybe you can ask your husband not to wave at her sense he had some kind of relationship with her and is not right. Because she may get the idea that hes interested in her again. Put it that way. And what ever you do, don't show to him or her that this is bothering you. Because if she sees that she will never leave you alone.
18. Your husband is an asshole for waving back at her. What kind of respect is that !